Self-discipline: the foundation of activity. Unlock the 5 keys to success

Motivation vs. self-discipline

In everyday language, ‘motivation’ and ‘self-discipline’ are often used interchangeably or combined into a single term that describes anything that drives you into action. However, there are fundamental differences between these terms, and understanding them is crucial to knowing what you are working on.

Motivation refers to a state of readiness to take action. It arises from a combination of physiological and psychological processes that shape specific behaviors or prompt changes in them. Perceived needs – whether conscious or unconscious – along with interactions and external stimuli, drive behaviors aimed at achieving particular goals. In essence, motivation serves as the driving force that compels individuals to engage in specific activities. The most commonly recognized types of motivation are:

• intrinsic motivation – driven by personal beliefs and objectives, such as: “I exercise because it helps me improve and brings me satisfaction from achieving my training goals”,
• extrinsic motivation – influenced by external factors like rewards or punishments, such as: “I don’t feel like working out, but I promised my partner I’d lose weight, so I exercise to meet their expectations”.

Self-discipline, by contrast, is the ability to regulate your emotions and behaviors to complete tasks and achieve personal goals. Even when motivation wanes, self-discipline helps you navigate challenges, maintain consistency, and stay committed to long-term objectives despite unfavorable circumstances. While motivation for physical activity – as well as other pursuits – can fluctuate, self-discipline is a skill that can be learned and strengthened like any other.

Self-discipline – how does this mechanism work?

Self-control as the ability to manage emotions and behaviors has been studied by psychologists for many years. American social psychologist Roy Baumeister, one of the most cited researchers in the field, connects self-control to the human ego. In his strength model of self-control , human willpower is likened to a muscle. When we make a conscious effort to resist temptation and maintain focus on a task, our egos use energy and need time to recover and recuperate. The decline of self-discipline and abandonment of tasks can be attributed to what is known as ego depletion, which results from excessive or prolonged exertion.

Other psychologists, such as Martin Seligman and Angela Duckworth, highlight the importance of focusing on the goal and the ability to override impulsive, reflexive behaviors in pursuit of it. Is your goal a slim figure, but dinner is still a few hours away? It takes some effort to resist grabbing a candy bar from the office vending machine before our scheduled meal. This is related to the ability to delay gratification, or sacrifice small, immediate rewards and pleasures to achieve greater benefits in the future. Walter Mischel’s classic study also demonstrated that using distractors effectively  can help resist temptation and increase the likelihood of achieving a goal.

People who cultivate the ability to delay gratification tend to perform better in various aspects of life compared to those who seek immediate rewards. They excel academically and professionally, are less prone to risky behaviors, have a lower risk of mental health issues, and are less likely to struggle with overweight.

Philip Zimbardo highlighted that self-control and the ability to delay gratification are linked to the future-oriented time perspective, where thinking about tomorrow, planning, and focusing on goals become natural habits in how people perceive time. However, he also emphasized that even the most future-oriented individuals should make time for enjoying the present moment. So if you train for health and recreation, you don’t need to be an ascetic, and your daily lifestyle doesn’t have to revolve around training goals at any cost.

Self-discipline in training

Imagine this scenario: you’re resuming physical activity after a long break from working out. Your goals are ambitious – a swift return to fitness, shaping your body, and even competing in obstacle races. Your prior experience works to your advantage – you have some technical skills and muscle memory. What key elements should you focus on to maintain and strengthen your self-discipline and achieve your goals?

1. Goals, plans, and priorities. You know what you want to achieve – but are you certain? Well-defined goals should be SMART: specific (S), measurable (M), achievable (A), realistic (R), and time-bound (T). After assessing your capabilities and consulting with a nutritionist and trainer, you have a clear understanding of your goals, the methods you'll use to reach them, and what is achievable within a defined timeframe. Your priorities are to focus on your diet and work on rebuilding your running endurance and fitness. You want to complete a 12 km obstacle course race within 6 months, regardless of your finishing time.
2. Each major goal consists of many smaller, manageable activities. Your primary goal is to complete the race. To achieve this, you have created a running training plan and a nutrition plan. Your first training and diet cycle lasts for 6 weeks. You track your progress each week by maintaining a training and diet journal. You are dedicated to losing excess weight, which makes diet your top priority, so you stick to it rigorously. You avoid eating out, cut out sweets, and prepare your meals at home every day. When motivation drops, whether it’s for cooking or treadmill sessions, you push yourself to start and commit to the first five minutes without stopping, then continue until you’ve completed the task.
3. The right balance. Your goals are ambitious and, to some extent, shape your daily routine. However, you recognize the importance of balancing training with rest. You also ensure that running preparation is not the sole objective you are pursuing and that training is not the only source of activity and satisfaction. You wake up early and work hard, but also make time for personal life, hobbies, and small pleasures, to ensure that both your body and mind get the rest they need.
4. The issue of distractors. Many obstacles can hinder your progress toward your goals – an extra episode of a TV show, an addictive mobile game, bad weather for outdoor workouts, sugary snacks, and so on. Distractors and diversions are always around, so you’re learning to approach them more sensibly. When you run, you leave your phone at home. If you snack, you choose healthy options. And when training becomes tiring or monotonous, you add new stimuli or engage in NEAT activities to maintain the habit of staying active and aligned with your goals.
5. Evaluation, assessment, and praise. After the first 6 weeks, you evaluate your progress. Even if the results aren’t ideal, there’s no need to be discouraged – simply review your plan and make adjustments based on the data you’ve collected in your journal. Identify the areas where you’re doing great and where there’s room for improvement. Celebrate your progress, and then set new goals to work toward in the next 6 weeks!

In discussing self-discipline, we’ve placed it within the context of training to illustrate how physical activity can help develop valuable habits that are not only beneficial for achieving sports goals but also applicable in many other areas of life. Training builds perseverance, enabling you to overcome challenges and accomplish tasks with greater ease.

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